Things My Mother Never Taught Me, A Girls Guide On How To Raise Yourself

About Me And About This Site

This book is 100% TRUE and not "Make Believe" but since it has some adult themes Im posting it here on this blog, away from my other blogs.

Dru Carrymore-Baggage was my online pen name. I decided to post my books for free online under a pen name and not submit them to a publisher because I wanted girls without resources and funds to read them and get solace and help from them...

I reside in the North East U.S.A. with my son.

It took me 15 years to write this book.

It was painful and at times I felt I was coming unhinged while writing it...

It was the best therapy I ever had and it was free.

It started out as a "burn book" letter to my Mothers sister and friends as a sorta cleansing of the plate, and yes somewhat vengeful too, but as I became deeper and deeper into my introspection and examining of my life's history and events it became a book, then I started writing part 2.

Believe it or not Book #1 isn't even a full accounting of things that happened to me as the daughter of a Mother with NPD, but this book would have been 3 xs the length, so I stuck with the main things.

So, here we go, let's see where this Chapter of my life takes me.

Index--For Book Number 1

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Some parts are NSFW. All names have been changed. All photos are mine.

Prologue

Hold On

Chapter1 - The Blunt Truth! Are Ya Scared Yet?

Now to MY story...

The Beginning

The Identified Patient

Interests Make You Interesting

Frenemies

Road Blocks

Whiplash

Out Of The Frying Pan And Then Into The Oven

Pregnancy Under A Black Cloud

The Emancipation Of Dru

The Blinders Start Coming Off

NPD

Losing The Trifecta To Win The Race (NSFW)

Final Words

Index For Book Number 2

So you wanna make sure you have a happy, satisfying life? You don't want to be sitting on that couch, fat, old and bored and miserable...

Here are The Steps...

Chapter 1- HoldOn

Chapter 2-The Life Catalogue

Chapter3 - Your Future Family

Chapter4 - Your Current Family

Chapter5 - YOU

Chapter6 - SEX

Chapter7 - Your Mate

Chapter 8 - Your Pregnancy, Kids and Motherhood

Chapter 9 - Your Relationship/Marriage/Family Life

Chapter 10 - Those Who Surround You, Friends, Family and Others.

Chapter 11 - Money and Shopping

Chapter 12 - Religion, Morals and Politics

Chapter13 - Depression and all the crazies

Chapter14 - Health and Body Image

Chapter 15 – Drugs, Drink, Bad People, The Media And Other Bad Things

Chapter16 - The Book Version Of The Fresh-Air Fund

Chapter 17—Confidence Vs Snobbiness

Chapter 18- Tying It All Together

Chapter19 - Epilogue

Chapter 20 - Dedications and Thanks

Chapter 21: How And When To Go No Contact

Where To Find Help

These are places you can go or call to seek help. PLEASE use them.

If you suspect your Mother or Father is a Narcissist, click on the following link and scroll all the way down to "Borderlines, Narcissists, Sociopaths & Psychopaths" The entire side of that page is a goldmine of info

http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com/2006/12/adult-children-of-narcissistic-parents.html

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NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER IS NOT CURABLE, QUIT TRYING TO FIX THE NARCISSIST. SAVE YOURSELF