A Supplement To Chapter 7: Your Future Mate

 A Supplement To Chapter 7: Your Future Mate

 

 

 

Ill bet the owner of this car has a small penis



Woofers, Tweeters, Kids and Losers

About 2 years ago, my laptop died and I needed a new one. I went to Best Buy and while I was waiting for help in the computer section, I saw a family come in. The "Dad" was about 5'6" tall, the "Mom" about 5' and they were both pudgy and dressed in summertime K-Mart finery, rubber flip flops and all. They had two kids, a boy and a girl, who looked like Xerox copies of Mom and Dad. They were probably about 4 and 5 years old. They looked like they didn't have much money. I watched as they made a beeline for Automotive Audio, and ended up hauling away a huge trunk woofer for their car. I thought back to my first years with Ricky, when he drilled holes into my Jeep to install a huge sound system that we did not need nor could afford. And then added stupid neon accessories and stuck the Tasmanian Devil stickers on it, yet he was too afraid to go get his license, he wanted to have a big balls sound system for his little balls mind.

When you are a teenager and get your first car that sound system and accessories are almost a rite of passage for a teen boy, as he is expressing himself. But when you are a man and get older and married and have kids and still are buying HUGE woofers for the back of your minivan or tricking out your used Ford Escort with Neon and Nascar stickers and you are living paycheck to paycheck.... Its time to grow up and put toys away...

How can you look at your babies and tell them YOU have no cash to send them on the school trip or buy them a Nintendo Switch for their birthday when you bought yourself STUPID giant woofers, or the latest Air Jordans to make your "friends" think you are a badass...

I'm 50 yrs old.
When I was 20 I used to drive around at 3am blasting music thinkin I was hot shit.
LOOK AT ME PEOPLE IM BEING A MORON PEOPLE!
I'm 50 yrs old. Guess what? New neighbors moved in with motorcycles this year, they think its cute to rev their engines rolling past my house. Its not, nor is loud music from your woofer in your hubby's used Ford Escort. Especially when you are borrowing money from your mom to pay for diapers.
And, even if you do have the money for the woofer, Air Jordans and the Kids shit, really why are you with a guy who needs these items?

Anger and Bravado doesn't equal Healthy Masculinity.

When I was growing up, in the late 1960s and 1970s I cannot recall a single Father I knew, including my own, who played with toys or left his family all weekend to go hang out with his guy friends. No one had or wanted a MANCAVE. Sure a man had a garage and a place for tools but if he was out in the garage it was because he was fixing something or building something, he wasn't out there with a 72" flat screen tv playing video games or building a $3000 drone.
Husbands/Fathers weren't leaving their families all weekend every weekend to go off with their gang of other immature dudes to go go carting, or golfing or fishing or other collegiate age pursuits.
Before they became parents, they would do these things with their Wives/GF, but once they became parents, that was it, weekends were for family time and the lawn.

It is 2018, the studies are showing that Millennials are not having sex as much as the previous generations.
You know why?
Two reasons...

PORN and the fact that GIRLS cannot find guys with adequate maturity levels.
Girls/Women just cant find guys/men who don't act like children.

Its just fact...
Us women are beautiful, we are sexy and attractive.
We are sex objects.
We should be LOVED, ADORED, APRECIATED AND OBJECTIFIED by our significant others.
And especially RESPECTED.
If there is no sexual attraction, then there is no sex or romantic relationship.
Sexual objectification is a great and powerful thing inside a loving healthy relationship.
Whats not great is when a guy/man OBJECTIFIES YOU AS A SURROGATE MOTHER.

A man who has not grown up and is still playing with toys and going go carting with the guys each weekend, is not a man, he is a child and probably has the attitude of a 5 yr old too.

And five yr olds throw tantrums, play with toys, want their mommies to do everything for them,

Pass these "boys" up

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